Relationship: Husbands or Boyfriends

Why give husband privileges to boyfriends?

You should draw a line somewhere when it comes to the extent you can go for a boyfriend, right?

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It is indisputable; marriages deserve 100% of your effort and absolute commitment.

You are supposed to be all in or far away from it - such is the standard of marriages
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The privileges your partner gets from you is meant to be total... you're said to belong to each other, body, spirit and soul.

So there shouldn't be a limit to the things you can do for him or the extent you can go for him... and he should be able to do the same for you.

playMarriages are quite limitless in scope of sacrifice expected of you (Shutterstock)

But before a marriage comes a relationship which is more like a preparatory class for the real deal.

So how dedicated to that relationship should you be, and how much benefits should your boyfriend enjoy from that it even though there is a chance that you won't end up getting married?

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Should he even be entitled to any of these benefits at all; and if he is, where do you draw the line on them?

Eniola Abumere digs into this matter and gives his opinion in the video below: